…although it is not. It’s just to let you know about the wonderful site Chump Lady where you can scroll through people’s stories of their cheating spouses.
The author has a very wise current post about the difference between niceness, which she calls impression management, and kindness. For anyone who’s been with people who are nice, but unkind, it might be helpful to consider the difference.
You can range widely on Chump Lady, full of bang-on observations about fidelity and cheaters, without losing interest.